Let's address the elephant in the room. Self-care is often misunderstood as indulgence or self-centeredness.
Contrary to popular belief, self-care is not a luxurious treat. No, no, my friend, it's an absolute necessity that forms the very foundation of our well-being.
Picture this: Maslow's hierarchy of needs, it is an iconic pyramid. At the base, we have our physiological needs like food, water, and shelter. As we climb the pyramid, we encounter safety, love and belonging, esteem, and finally, self-actualization. To achieve moving up the pyramid, Dr. Maslow says we must first feel secure at the previous level (starting at the bottom - think of it as you're naturally building the pyramid from bottom to top).
But where does self-care fit into all of this? Well, matter of fact, it's the secret ingredient that fuels our ability to climb that pyramid with grace and resilience.
Think about it. How can we possibly meet our physiological needs if we neglect our physical and mental health? How can we feel safe and secure if we're constantly running on empty, physically and emotionally?
Self-care is the key that unlocks the door to a solid foundation, allowing us to build upon it and then we can give and do our best.
But here's the truth: self-care is not selfish; it's self-preservation. It's about recognizing our own needs and taking proactive steps to meet them. It's about not only filling our own cup, but filling it to overflow, so that we have enough to give to others.
So, how can we incorporate self-care into our daily lives without feeling guilty or overwhelmed? Well, my friend, it's all about finding what works for you.
Self-care is not a one-size-fits-all concept. It's about discovering activities and practices that nourish your mind, body, and soul, that makes you feel good, makes you smile. That's your mission - to experience the things that make you feel this.
Whether it's taking a bubble bath, going for a walk in nature, journaling, or simply savoring a cup of tea, find what brings you joy and peace.
Remember, self-care is not a luxury; it's a necessity. It's the oxygen mask we must put on ourselves before assisting others. By prioritizing our well-being, we become better equipped to tackle life's challenges, pursue our passions, and create meaningful connections.
So, let's rewrite the narrative. Let's embrace self-care as the foundation of Maslow's hierarchy, recognizing its vital role in our overall well-being. Let's give ourselves permission to prioritize self-care without guilt or hesitation. After all, we deserve it.
Until next time, take care of yourself - start today!
Join me for a FREE 1 hour virtual WORKSHOP on November 11, 2023 at 11am-12pm PST.
Come see how overwhelming stress has inadvertently creeped into your life, understand how it is you got there and get some tools to help yourself get back on track to living a life less hectic, more organized, and experiencing joy on the daily!
Your Stress Management Life Coach!